However I kept chasing, kept working, kept exerting all my efforts to my goals but I just could not reach the end result I would like...THIS KEPT DRIVING ME CRAZY!
After a certain set of experiences where my efforts and potential did not equal output my family, financial and physical situation met with unmitigated disaster where I could not see a way out or any hope for better circumstances.
After many inquiries and searches for a better way to function, to figure out what was going wrong and why I had experienced such a devastating event I learnt a fundamental basic truth:
Its not what I do but my thoughts that make an immeasurable amount of difference to my results.
This may seem obvious buts it is a trap we all often fall into: more hours at work chasing the pay rise, more effort into getting an education, burning ourselves out to get ahead when in fact all we are doing is losing each and everyday.
The primary lesson that I learnt was that it's my Paradigm and the way I was thinking about all things that were determining my results! The conclusion: My results SUCKED, so the way I was thinking about things, looking at things and doing things...SUCKED!
Change was needed and needed now. I found help, I found out that I was not unique in my experiences and more importantly that there was a way out.
- Credit is over rated...focus on your contributions.
- Live life as though you already have what you want.
- Learn how to change your Paradigm not boost your intellect.
- Think about what you want, to be and to have as we become what we think!